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Camouflage on the Real Emotional Feeling

Camouflage on the Real Emotional Feeling

Bon Ami Laishram



It's said that love is the byproduct of emotions and emotions are brought by the feeling of attachment and care.These feelings of attachment and care aren't  always two ways.It may arise from only one side and another side may be totally unwelcoming the incoming factors despite having position perception about the factors or the person.Love between two individuals is beautiful,however, the same feeling doesn't evolve simultaneously from the both sides.

Evolution of love for one another simultaneously happens in very rare cases in real life.Love between two individuals in their first eye contact happens in movies frequently but it's rare in real life.One side will take initiative and the another side will analyze the proposal being made and finalize whether it's negative or positive decision.Adjustment and compromise also play vital roles in creating love and building a solid relationship between two individuals.

In few cases, one sided feeling is so strong that it's bound with stubbornness, egotism and self confidence that may turn positive or negative at the end. The person is not ready to ignore the feeling despite knowing about the circumstance or fate of the approach.The person usually fears of expressing the feelings to the concern party because he fears of rejection.He fears of rejection as he really loves the opposite one and he also has a rough idea about reaction. Reaction is uncertainty, it may be either position or negative.It can't be determined unless the opposite party show some signs of it and these some signs have no certainty too.So, the outcome can be seen after the dice is thrown i.e, risk.

Risk is scary. Anything can happen.Risk can end the existing relation as well.And the one sided love is always true. The person tends to stick to the same opposite one if though he is egotis, ignorance in nature despite facing ignorance and egotism from the opposite side. These would fear him more than ever and he would never dare to risk the existing relationship like friendship.

As a mission to save the existing relationship, he  would try to cover up the actual feelings and display a normal and gentle nature.He wouldn't ever dare to approach with real feelings as he induces himself to become mascaeider for the world expect few near and dear ones.However, this cover is too thin to withstand the burning fire beneath.

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