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Estranging Attachment from Love

Estranging Attachment from Love   Bon Ami Laishram   Love is the byproduct of emotional feelings and emotional feelings are the results of attachment and care. Attachment and care can be together in a single pool or there can be the presence of one of elements in the pool and vice versa. Love can be born even without the attachment. The eternal caring is the significant or the sole element to give rise to love for the concern opposite person as this category of love is that love exists in the relationship between two lovers, spouses. Attachment is the additional element that drive person into the world of fantasy ; dark fantasy probably. Love is always healthy and unconditional when its born with the sense or feeling of eternal care. Its all about caring for the love one unconditionally without expecting any form of return from the love one. There is less interference of  expectation  which is the primary reason behind the formation of instability in the ...

Defining Maturity

Defining Maturity Bon Ami Laishram As far as the mentality is concerned maturity is a state of mind that is capable of identifying the surrounding around, dealing with it and maintaining proper relation with the surrounding and the sense of adjustability as well. However, I am afraid that the generation is diverted itself away from this state of mind. People are not mature enough to adjust themselves in the environment or to tolerate the environment for a short period of time. People have their own set of principles. Some of them are too serious about with their principles that they are willing to go against that even if the need arises. These people often consider framing a set of principles and following them as mature mind but it's not. Following just your own principles without keeping in mind the impact of outcomes on others is just a cheap act of selfishness not maturity. Life is beautiful and the surroundings make it colourful. Surroundings include peer,...