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Defining Maturity




Defining Maturity

Bon Ami Laishram


As far as the mentality is concerned maturity is a state of mind that is capable of identifying the surrounding around, dealing with it and maintaining proper relation with the surrounding and the sense of adjustability as well. However, I am afraid that the generation is diverted itself away from this state of mind. People are not mature enough to adjust themselves in the environment or to tolerate the environment for a short period of time. People have their own set of principles. Some of them are too serious about with their principles that they are willing to go against that even if the need arises. These people often consider framing a set of principles and following them as mature mind but it's not. Following just your own principles without keeping in mind the impact of outcomes on others is just a cheap act of selfishness not maturity.

Life is beautiful and the surroundings make it colourful. Surroundings include peer, family and others. If you choose your surrounding appropriately then your life will be beautiful and colourful with no advent of autumn. However , if you choose mascariders then you may feel beautiful and colourful initially but you will be left with betrayal after some moments when you and their so called set of principles crosses swords. They won't let you win against their so called principles, the ultimate sign of maturity. You will be deserted with your trust being murdered in such a manner that you won't able to trust anyone in future. This is the height of maturity according to a section of people  in the society.

Maturity is all about maintaining calmness even at the most dreaded moment.Its about tolerance, Its about patience. Its about adjustability.Its about adaptability. Its about loyalty. Its about sacrificing a drop of our happiness out of 100 droplets for the sake of one who really cares for us. Its about dropping selfishness and self set hypothesis which may turn against you anytime and create more arch rivals than friends in nearby future. Its about ability to deal our own problems without emitting frustration on the one who really loves and cares about you. And last but not the least, its about forgiveness.

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